The nation's unfolding discussion about the Affordable Care Act -- and what it means to you and to me, your most personal trainer -- won't go away. It's too important to ignore and too complicated to fully explain, but it's worthwhile pursuing because, let's face it, what's more important than your health and well-being?

Dear Margo: My husband and I are expecting our first child, which is wonderful, but I am worried that our parenting styles will clash due to different upbringings. As a teenager, I had a strict curfew, didn't drink until I went to college, couldn't date without my mom approving the guy, etc. Hubby, on the other hand, is a youngest child, and his otherwise smart and nice parents let him run completely wild, staying out all night and going out of town to college frat parties as a high school student. Starting at age 12, he drank a ridiculous amount, showed up at school events wasted, drove drunk, smoked pot and did coke.